Well, it's official... we had to go to the ER for the very first time! Ironically, it did not involve little Laurie. This time Haili stole the show! On Tuesday night Haili was throwing a bit of a tantrum because she DID NOT want to go to bed. She was laying on the floor screaming. So I grabbed her hands and pulled her up to standing and then carried her to her bedroom. Nothing unusual. Well, she kept screaming and screaming. Finally after several minutes, I was able to calm her down and I started to read her books. Usually Haili loves to sit on my lap as I read. This time she just wanted to lay on the bed. She kept saying that she had an "owie" on her arm. Hmmmm... I tried to trick her into sitting up or at least to move that arm. No luck. When I tried to touch her arm, she would howl. My brother, James, was visiting and made her a sling. Shortly thereafter, Haili and I set off to the ER!
Haili was really a great girl through all this. I explained where we were going and she actually perked up a little. She knows that hospitals help babies and that they were going help fix her "owie". The doctor came in to examine her arm and not 30 seconds into the examination, he pulled on her left elbow and popped it into place! Haili started screaming and the doctor said he'd come back in 10-15 minutes... when she's stopped crying. Haili cried for probably about 5 minutes and then it was like an "ah-ha!" moment for her. She looked at her elbow and started to move her arm. "Mom! The doctor fixed my owie! My owie is all gone! I don't even need a band-aid!" She immediately turned into her normal, bouncy, happy self.
The doc did educate me on lifting kids by using their hands. Apparently your elbows do not fully develop until you are 4 to 5 years old. He told me it's not a good idea to ever use a child's hands to lift them up. It's also not a good idea to swing your kids using their hands. OK...I felt bad before, but now I felt even worse. It was completely my fault. But at least I've learned my lesson and I'm just grateful that they were able to fix everything quickly.
That was it. A relatively painless ER visit. One dislocated elbow and an important lesson learned by mom.
(By the way, Laurie is in the video in my last post. She shows up at about minute 6.)
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